My name is Tammy and I'm 23 years old. I am a mother of two girls aged 4 years and 18 months and my partner Tom is 24. Tom was diagnosed with Nasopharyngeal Carcinoma in October this year (2011). It's behind the nose, down the nasopharynx, lymph nodes of the neck, collar bone, under both arms and in his lungs too and is in the advanced stages of a terminal illness. Consultants have told us Tom cannot be cured but has been given the option of chemotherapy treatment which he hasn't had since december 2011 as it made him quite poorly. He was rushed into hospital a few days before Christmas with a dangerously high temperature of 41, severe vomiting and an infection which needed urgent operating. Due to this he spent the whole of Christmas in hospital and completely missed it all. It was a very emotional, heartbreaking week, i spent every day in the hospital with Tom and my children had to spend every day/night with my parents and we didn't at all have the Christmas we would of l! iked as we couldn't all be together as a family. It was a bit touch and go for a couple of days and the end may well be sooner than any of us think or expect but cant be sure. It would be absolutely fantastic and mean s very much if there was anything at all that anybody could do to help me and my family. Me and my partner would love to get married, it would be the most special day of our lives and make special, lovely memories spent/shared with our children, with lots of photos for me and our girls to
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